It’s New Year’s Eve, and if you haven’t started your parties yet, you should do those and come back to this.
But if you’re here: we autistic folks are not ones for ‘cheap, tacky, trendy resolutions.’
“Gee, that’s odd,” you might think. “I thought you all loved routine!”
We do. At least I do.
Which is why we’re pretty much set in our ways, and resolving to do things differently is a carefully measured choice and long-term effort.
For us, resolution is not a “thing to do” to ring in the New Year.
I’ve carried out two major, life changing actions as an autist, and neither of them could wait until some popular, traditional point in time.
See, we like being unique.
Undergoing (and often failing) some annual ritual of life change is too mainstream, popular, and the wrong kind of normal. For me, I need more successes, and a New Year’s Resolution isn’t giving me good odds on one.
When I resolved to cut down from being a whale to a moderate walrus, I needed to make it personal, not popular – and I needed it on my terms.
By New Year’s, I had something better than a resolution.
I had a habit.
If you’re the type for resolutions, good on you. Maybe you’ve done well. If so, awesome.
But if not, take a page from the autistic playbook:
Snap. Change. Continue. Forget about when and just go with what. Be different, personal, private, but purposeful.
Happy New Year.
2 thoughts on “The Life Autistic: Why We Don’t Do ‘Resolutions’”
I choose not resolutions but instead goals; one’s that are attainable. And most of my goals are to continue what I’ve been doing because it works. I hope you ahve a great new year and 2019 gives you happiness, brother